Archive for June, 2011

Why don’t I see real results? (part 2)

You are so incredibly excited about it: the destination, goal, experience, or feeling you’ve been seeking.  You say once you are actually there, you will know.  Even if you’ve never felt it or been there before, you are certain you will recognize “it” when it shows up, and you will rejoice. Except. Except if you […] Read More»

How long will it take to change?

How long will it take to…lose 10 pounds? Feel better? Leave this marriage? Get the degree? Transform my relationship with my father? At some point, most of my clients ask me how long it will take to change. Here is what I observe about time and change: Change may happen over time, but it is […] Read More»