Archive for January, 2014

When am I old enough to get married?

Kristin is 22 years old. She’s been in a romantic relationship for the past two years and she and her partner are talking seriously about marriage.  During our session last week, Kristin said, “My godmother told me that nobody should get married before 30.  Do you think I’m old enough to get married?” When am […] Read More»

If it's just a game, why bother playing?

Kurt is angry. He tells me he and his wife had a heated argument last night, during which she told him he’s “wasting his life” trying to improve his ability to play “a made-up game.”* Is Kurt playing a made-up game? Yes!  Odds are, so are you. The game (profession, obsession, pastime, hobby) to which […] Read More»